Where do you find inspiration? Is it in the world around you? In nature? In books or TV? Is it in the every day grind? The moment of reflection you find when the days seem to play on repeat? Do you find it in social media or the words that flow in conversations? Do you find it in your loved […]
The Struggle
I have always been interested in psychology. Understanding the mind and how it works. Noticing behaviors and patterns. Identifying habits. Cause and effect. I have a natural gift for recognizing emotion. I am highly sensitive to feelings; even when someone tries to hide them. Because of my natural desire to help people and to understand their needs, I have cherished […]
The Communication
It’s a universal issue. A complication that can make or break even the very best of relationships. The smallest amount of disregard can cause an avalanche of assumption. Intentions become irrelevant in the aftermath. I’ve always been a voice of reason to friends around me. A confidant that cares. My gift of empathy gives me depth that my experience cannot […]
The Communication
It’s a universal issue. A complication that can make or break even the very best of relationships. The smallest amount of disregard can cause an avalanche of assumption. Intentions become irrelevant in the aftermath. I’ve always been a voice of reason to friends around me. A confidant that cares. My gift of empathy gives me depth that my experience cannot […]
The Communication
It’s a universal issue. A complication that can make or break even the very best of relationships. The smallest amount of disregard can cause an avalanche of assumption. Intentions become irrelevant in the aftermath. I’ve always been a voice of reason to friends around me. A confidant that cares. My gift of empathy gives me depth that my experience cannot […]
The Silence
There is something in the silence. The stillness, where your thoughts roam free. You close your eyes and hope to see…the value that it holds. The static, it fills up the space. Clocks lose time…their power erased. The busy world fades from its place…it ceases now to be. There’s something in the gravity. The pulling of what’s meant to be. […]
The Silence
There is something in the silence. The stillness, where your thoughts roam free. You close your eyes and hope to see…the value that it holds. The static, it fills up the space. Clocks lose time…their power erased. The busy world fades from its place…it ceases now to be. There’s something in the gravity. The pulling of what’s meant to be. […]
The Fire
Many things come to mind when one thinks of fire. It takes on so many meanings: literal, metaphorical, and spiritual. It can be alarming…dangerous…frightening…or it can be a symbol of strength… power…or even calm. It is the epitome of “extreme”….used to emphasize the most dramatic scenarios. However, there is more to a flame than ash and smoke. A Consuming Fire: […]
The Misconception
I have learned a lot of things this year. While my knowledge continues to expand, there is one thing that has been a constant roadblock. Misconception. When people hear the story, their initial reaction tends to be the same. It does not matter if the person is American or Nigerian for that matter…the questions begin. Because we are human, we […]
The Surrender
There are no words to describe the events of this year. There are some things that happen that are impossible to explain. As humans, we are creatures of habit. We have established patterns and comfort zones. We see things from a lens of experience….an understanding only of what we have viewed…lessons we have learned…pain we have suffered…or love we have […]